7 signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you

In an ideal world, a relationship has a lot of giving and take. But sometimes in the relationships, one person is being used all the time and it’s better that you should better know about that at any early stage and to know that there are some signs you see in your boyfriend. Here’s what you need to look out for…

He Keeps Working Late

Sudden work emergency? The big project that he didn’t tell you about in advance? If he starts working overtime and is hours on sporadic days of the week working late, he might not actually be working…be careful girl.

He treats you badly

Are you always explaining to your friends that your partner is just tired or stressed, saying that’s why they’re being rude to you or not making the effort? That’s a huge sign. If you find that they are disrespectful, don’t treat you well, and you don’t feel good with the person then chances are you might be being used.

They make you feel small

If the person you are dating is nice to you, treats you well, and seems to enjoy your company then it’s likely you are not being used. But if you’re constantly feeling small, underwhelmed, let down. You know, that knot-in-your-stomach feeling, you need to take a look at the relationship. Something is really off and there’s a good chance you’re being used.

Your needs aren’t being met

Pay attention if you’re the one always making the effort. Whether you’ve been dating for five days or five years, it should still be a two-way street. You can generally use your own feelings and comfort level as a good yardstick, If you find your needs aren’t being met or that you’re becoming resentful, something’s up.

You’re not ok with how the relationship is defined

Having mutual respect means that you’re both ok with the dynamic between you. It doesn’t matter what the relationship looks like as something that’s casual and just about sex can still have a lot of respect. They might not want any sort of serious relationship, but they like you and you might generally feel good in this situation. But you both have to be on the same page. If you’re not comfortable with the relationship and they know you want more than they do, they’re using you. And it’s not ok.

He Is Using His Phone A Lot More (And Not For You)

If he suddenly starts texting more often, but he still takes forever to reply to you… that may be a sign that he’s cheating. It doesn’t mean he is definitely cheating on you. He could just be having an important conversation…

He Avoids Getting Close To You

If you notice that your guy suddenly avoids intimacy with you, that’s a huge red flag. Some men who fear intimacy will cheat to feel like they still have power over their sex life and some men cheat simply because they want someone young and new

So the key is to know the signs and makes sure that we’re being honest with ourselves about what’s actually going on in our relationship. No matter how difficult it is to a admit

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